I really don't mean to beat the drama horse past its expiration date, but accusing Dean of all people of death threats isn't exactly the most rational or intelligent thing to do whatsoever. That's the truth.
I've never really had any respect for Crecente, and it's instances like these that solidify my reasoning. Aside from maintaining a tremendously arrogant air about his writings and opinions, he holds irrational grudges and is completely unable to distance criticism from personal attacks, and because of this he goes out of his way to silence anyone critical of himself or how the site is run. His typical "e-mail me instead of posting concerns" response is simply a ploy to get people to privately e-mail him so he can privately ignore them, and should anyone make public suggestions they're taken as "trolling" as an easy way to dismiss anything that isn't in accordance to how he runs the site.
Such are not the inner workings of a rational individual, I'm sorry to say. He and the rest of the writer staff knew perfectly well who Dean was, because Dean made a very large impact and following within the site's community. Crecente himself knows perfectly well who Dean is, and he should know perfectly well that Dean would never make any death threats, even in jest.
The fact that Joel blatantly and abruptly changed to subject to throw such a nonsensical allegation, then even more abruptly cut off the line of communication when Dean shared this accusation (and rightfully so) with others reeks of intervention from a certain individual. Death threats of any kind, even made on the internet as a joke, are completely deplorable and neither Dean nor anyone else in this community would ever make them, and just in case...some other 3rd party is reading these posts, the purpose of this topic is, never was, and never will be a series of personal attacks or threats of any kind on the Kotaku writing staff. We only criticize the site or their jobs as writers, never on a personal level. And to be perfectly honest, I find that falsely accusing anyone of making a death threat against children is just as offensive to the accused as it is to the reciptient such a threat, because it means Crecente has absolutely no respect for Dean if he seriously believes that Dean would be so mentally deranged as to make a threat of that kind.
So forgive me if I came off as "aggresive" when I said those allegations were "batshit insane", but I genuinely believe that's what they are. I'm not saying he personally is, I'm saying his allegations are. If Crecente actually did receive a death threat of that kind (I wouldn't doubt it. There are millions of sick people on the internet who get off on making those kinds of threats), that's really his problem and he doesn't need to accuse Dean of making them. He knows perfectly well how Dean behaves and says due to the sheer popularity of his posts. Dean's well-known likability, Crecente's well-known antics in trying to censor criticism and holding grudges, and Joel's incredibly conspicuous change of attitude don't give me confidence that Crecente was acting rationally when telling Joel of said "threats".
I'm going to give Crecente the benefit of the doubt (for the umpteenth time) and assume he didn't just make that "threat" up, and I'm going to assume he simply got two people mixed up. With that in mind, he really didn't act rationally, because even five seconds of cursory thought over this would've easily let him realize that, no, the guy on Kotaku who commented rationally for several YEARS and was well respected by the community really wouldn't have made a threat of that kind. If I ever took a death threat seriously you bet your ass I would remember very well who it is and wouldn't get it mixed up the way I mix two regular Joes on any random forum. Things are just a tad different in that case. And either Joel was massively gullible or he was simply looking for an excuse to end the conversation abruptly.
In short, neither of them acted rationally. As is typical.