So, do you believe all the messed up stuff in the bible, or just the parts that suit you?
I think it's worth noting that people don't often go after the people who believe the same things they do, which might be why Christians don't tend to be the ones that try to force a belief down your throat. Additionally, I think it's fairly likely that Christians don't assume you to be an atheist just because you haven't told them you're a Christian.
There's plenty of people in my life who have tried to force their beliefs, or rather, their viewpoint in life upon me. Ranging from fellow atheists, both gnostic and agnostic, religious people of several faiths, people who believe in various paranormal entities and other pseudo-scientific stuff. Though truth be told the majority of such events have been related to the christian faith, and the second largest portion is the paranormal and pseudo-science. This is something I find rather odd considering how large a population of atheists and agnostics we have here in Sweden.
I think everyone is perfectly entitled to their beliefs, and to discuss that belief with people on all sides of the fence as long as they, too, are voluntarily contributing to that debate. I have a few beliefs myself, that are not based in science or rationality, though they are very minor and not worth elaborating on here.
I think the crucial part is that while it is fine to believe in whatever you want, and it is fine to discuss that belief, it is not fine to tell people that they need to live by your personal beliefs. When you enter that arena, you better have a damn good reason for trying to tell people what they can and can not do. And you better be able to back up your reasoning with some objectively verifiable evidence.
In regards to what you call the liberal media:
If so-called "liberal" movies, music and TV can be seen as trying to force their beliefs on you, then so is all conservative/religious movies, music and TV forcing it down everyon else's throats. Incidentally, I don't think is fair at all. People should certainly be able to write and publish fiction that is based on their viewpoint in life, and that is not the same as trying to force it upon other people.
As an atheist, I can tell you that I find the cross, specifically the cross in the common christian variation, to be synonymous with strong religious belief.