i hated the game, i could never get into it and the only reason i ever finished it is because it's my brother's favorite ff game and he kept telling me the romance made it worth it, go back and finish it, which i finally did like 10+ years after it was released. i still didn't think it was worth it once i did, i just couldn't get into the story or characters and i found myself angry every time you'd have the dream sequences with laguna and gang because i wanted the whole game to be that story instead. if it was their story instead the game would have been 100% better imo. my brother wasn't the only one, almost every person i know who loves that awful game points to the romance story as the reason, or one of the main reasons, why they like it.
edit: so nice to see all the love for tactics here. it really is such a deliciously good game.