I've not actively read it for years, and typically avoid reading it when linked. I also hear stuff of it mentioned now and then such as twitter or todays PAR article. Strangeloves post provides context to an earlier complaint I'd seen on twitter.
Also turns out my housemates BF reads it now n then, suggested it during the PS4 announcement.
"How would you know anything of Kotaku, I've never heard you mention reading it"
*loads up Kotakuites Steam group*
"Oh"
As for her wanting to change it from the inside, she's never really struck me for that type. Certainly the type where if they're giving her money she'll gladly write for them, and she causes such controversy, and thus hits, I'm sure they're happy to keep paying her.