I'm late to the discussion of terminology for black folks!
I'm actually half-Jamaican, but for all intents and purposes, I might as well be black. Doesn't particularly bother me if someone says 'blacks' or 'African-Americans' (aside from being a blanket statement). I find it kind of silly, but it is what it is.
I'm immensely bothered by my best friend's resistance toward the internet. He is one of those guys who can't seem to stand to talk on the phone for longer than twenty minutes. Or talk via messaging program or even be bothered to maintain a Facebook page. Everything HAS to be face to face. Video games, conversations, D&D. But here's the thing, our circle of friends have scattered to the winds (one lives about thirty minutes away from him, the rest of us live two and a half to sixteen hours away from him). Meeting up in person isn't really via for most of us now, yet it is still damn near impossible to get him to interact in any capacity short of physical.
All the more annoying when he complains about how we don't play D&D or video games anymore. Much as I'd love to drive two and a half hours to St. Paul to hang out with him for a couple days, it's not terribly viable when I work through all of the week.